My Story, Story (Originally Posted 2011)

My Story, Story (Originally Posted 2011)

I’m a PhD student and have been in college for over 10 years. I’ve dated women and even had one marry me once and another agree to be engaged. But, no matter these moments, I never felt like I was offering the best of who I could be to these women. I’ve always felt...
Find Women Where They Are

Find Women Where They Are

Amazing realizations about how far I have come have become routine aspect of my life ever since Get Real almost 4 years ago.  And this one is all about acceptance, like really accepting, where women are in their lives. I began Get Real because I wanted to get a handle...
#reflective

#reflective

Being human is trippy. Perhaps the trippiest thing is thought itself. I was just walking through a parking lot on a sun drenched late morning. I had flashes of thought… FLASH… A memory about being on the 14th floor balcony of a near by high rise apartment building....
You Don’t Know Me

You Don’t Know Me

I recently have been mischaracterized in some very harsh and potentially damning ways. Being mischaracterized really pisses me off.  I go from zero to 100 in rage and anger when I have been mischaracterized.  See, I feel I’m a great guy, an understanding guy, a...
Nice, But Not Safe

Nice, But Not Safe

I’m not Safe,”  She said. Those other guys, “they were safe.” Were they “nice?,” I ask. “Yes.” “Am I nice?” I ask, as my mind thinks of the worst case scenario: “nice guys finish last.”...
Meeting Leigh

Meeting Leigh

Ever wonder what Leigh is REALLY like? He’s a complete and totally cunt. Not true.  He is actually much taller than I expected, as I expected him to be shorter because I’m taller that most Asians.  He is also very handsy.  He really knows how to touch a...